Alright all you men/boys out there

clapper011 · Post by **clapper011** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:43 pm

I have someone asking me for advice on a new relationship. He says he really likes this girl he met and talks to her for hours online. He isn't sure of how to tell her that he likes her..what would you do ?

muy_thaiguy · Post by **muy_thaiguy** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:48 pm

1st one of course, but sometimes guys can be a bit nervous about these things.

ParadiceCity9 · Post by **ParadiceCity9** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:50 pm

this is kinda hard...could you specify how you would tell her?

hecter · Post by **hecter** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:51 pm

1 or 2. Depends on how shy the guy is and the girl. If the guy is really shy, he might want to go with two. If the girl might be alienated, or think she might be alienated by going right out and telling her, then also go with number two. Personally, I would probably go with two...

Though, I would probably beat around the bush and get to know her, to see how she would react to the first one/

scarmagnet · Post by **scarmagnet** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:52 pm

He has no balls, so why does it matter what he does. Tell him to grow a set or he'll never get laid.

luns101 · Post by **luns101** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:14 pm

clapper011 wrote:I have someone asking me for advice on a new relationship. He says he really likes this girl he met and talks to her for hours online. He isn't sure of how to tell her that he likes her..what would you do ?

You promised that you weren't going to share this story with anybody else out in the open. That's the last time I tell you anything in confidence, clapper. YOU PROMISED!

Ok it's true. I love LaFawnduh Lucas and things have been getting pretty serious. I think I should take the next step.

Fo Sho · Post by **Fo Sho** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:21 pm

Bunch of doctors of love on this website... lol. Great place to ask: An online risk forum.

The guy was prob talking about you by the way. It's a classic high school move, where you have a girl you are crushin on, but don't know how to tell her.... Watch, guaranteed in a few days he'll be like, "the girl I like is you" Or else he'll use the advice you give him on you.

Personally I prefer the straight forward approach- Slap her on the ass, if she doesn't get pissed then you are in

. lol. You'd be amazed how well that works in college.

static_ice · Post by **static_ice** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:34 pm

wait I'm confused do they know eachother in real life and talk online or are they online-only acquantances?

if its the former then instead of going the awkward way and say he likes her I would just go directly and ask her if she wants to go somewhere friday night

clapper011 · Post by **clapper011** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:38 pm

Fo Sho wrote:Bunch of doctors of love on this website... lol. Great place to ask: An online risk forum.

The guy was prob talking about you by the way. It's a classic high school move, where you have a girl you are crushin on, but don't know how to tell her.... Watch, guaranteed in a few days he'll be like, "the girl I like is you" Or else he'll use the advice you give him on you.

Personally I prefer the straight forward approach- Slap her on the ass, if she doesn't get pissed then you are in . lol. You'd be amazed how well that works in college.

well i dont think its me...have been talking to him very long..lol

but I'm more of a straight forward gal myself

willis · Post by **willis** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:40 pm

static_ice wrote:wait I'm confused do they know eachother in real life and talk online or are they online-only acquantances?

if its the former then instead of going the awkward way and say he likes her I would just go directly and ask her if she wants to go somewhere friday night

It is friday night

static_ice · Post by **static_ice** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:44 pm

willis wrote:
static_ice wrote:wait I'm confused do they know eachother in real life and talk online or are they online-only acquantances?

if its the former then instead of going the awkward way and say he likes her I would just go directly and ask her if she wants to go somewhere friday night
It is friday night

oh whaddaya know? it is... but I meant it as a general expression

sully800 · Post by **sully800** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 8:47 pm

I think it makes a big difference if he actually knows the girl (which I'm assuming but you didn't specify).

If he doesn't know her then he's probably chatting with a 45 year old man.

clapper011 · Post by **clapper011** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:14 pm

sully800 wrote:I think it makes a big difference if he actually knows the girl (which I'm assuming but you didn't specify).

If he doesn't know her then he's probably chatting with a 45 year old man.

no he says he knows her..they were at a camp...

static_ice · Post by **static_ice** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:17 pm

clapper011 wrote:
sully800 wrote:I think it makes a big difference if he actually knows the girl (which I'm assuming but you didn't specify).

If he doesn't know her then he's probably chatting with a 45 year old man.
no he says he knows her..they were at a camp...

in that case

static_ice wrote:instead of going the awkward way and say he likes her I would just go directly and ask her if she wants to go somewhere friday night

Skoffin · Post by **Skoffin** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:34 pm

Club her over the head and drag her to your lair. That's the standard advice anyway.

unriggable · Post by **unriggable** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:35 pm

Well you gotta say it without saying it.

clapper011 · Post by **clapper011** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:45 pm

Skoffin wrote: Club her over the head and drag her to your lair. That's the standard advice anyway.

go cave man go cave man

muy_thaiguy · Post by **muy_thaiguy** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:48 pm

clapper011 wrote:
Skoffin wrote: Club her over the head and drag her to your lair. That's the standard advice anyway.
go cave man go cave man

Me caveman! Me Ugg! lol

dominationnation · Post by **dominationnation** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:52 pm

I find myself horrible at talking to girls that I like so I would probably make sure that she likes me too and then beat around the bush hinting to her to ask me out until she did.

Hitman079 · Post by **Hitman079** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:57 pm

scarmagnet wrote:He has no balls, so why does it matter what he does. Tell him to grow a set or he'll never get laid.

there's more to love that that, you know.
btw i'd go with option one, even though i'm real shy. i think i got some hints from my first girlfriend that she had liked me, so i just took the risk. you might as well anyways, because most girls are shy, and the guy is traditionally supposed to make the first move..option 2 would be ok too, but you can't be way too subtle, otherwise she'll never be really sure and i don't think she'd do anything. i don't know how else to say that.

riggable · Post by **riggable** » Fri Aug 03, 2007 10:19 pm

talking/flirting with girls online is lame.

He should try at least calling her on the phone or in real person first. I've found out that people are way different in real life then on the computer.

Tyr · Post by **Tyr** » Sat Aug 04, 2007 12:18 am

if he talks to her for hours online they both need to go outside. i know the sun burns but only for a few days till your used to it again

Anarchy Ninja · Post by **Anarchy Ninja** » Sat Aug 04, 2007 3:39 am

"Does this cloth smell like chloroform?" Works everytime

b.k. barunt · Post by **b.k. barunt** » Sat Aug 04, 2007 4:19 am

Fo Sho wrote:Bunch of doctors of love on this website... lol. Great place to ask: An online risk forum.

The guy was prob talking about you by the way. It's a classic high school move, where you have a girl you are crushin on, but don't know how to tell her.... Watch, guaranteed in a few days he'll be like, "the girl I like is you" Or else he'll use the advice you give him on you.

Personally I prefer the straight forward approach- Slap her on the ass, if she doesn't get pissed then you are in . lol. You'd be amazed how well that works in college.

You're absolutely right. An online risk forum is not really the best place to get advice of this nature. I would say that the amount of time you spend here (pretty much every night) is a pretty good indication of how well you do with the ladies. "Slap her on the ass . . ." Brilliant!!

cena-rules · Post by **cena-rules** » Sat Aug 04, 2007 4:19 am

I would get to know the girl as a really good friend then see if she wants to step it up a level.

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