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I'm the insane guy, that you never wanna meet... See the end of my blade? It's sharp. hehetdans wrote:lets rock this joint... or.. lets have them Blow this,,,,,, joint
My attendance is only 97.9%. I had more than 600 games going at once 15 years ago when I attempted to take my own life and was hospitalized for 6 months with no access to anything.Apatheist wrote: Tue Jan 13, 2026 12:51 pm I've seen other sites that allow people not to play at weekends...but then they get into a tangle when different religions define what the sabbath is (eg Judaism starts at sunset on Friday, which in winter can be very early in the afternoon). One does get the missing troops deployed at the end of a turn. Where I can see it being helpful is assassin games - it's somewhat frustrating to find one's target has gone missing, to be left chasing their original target who hasn't been hit for 3 rounds. It would seem to be a fairer game if they were allowed to continue. There will always be unforeseen circumstances - in this weather, internet and power outages are quite possible.
Would it be churlish to point out that your attendance is only 97.9%?
I'm the insane guy, that you never wanna meet... See the end of my blade? It's sharp. hehetdans wrote:lets rock this joint... or.. lets have them Blow this,,,,,, joint
Apatheist wrote: Thu Jan 15, 2026 6:48 am My excuse is that the site is wrong. I've never missed a turn, so I don't know why it's not saying 100%. That would be one turn missed in 1000, and I don't think I've been signed up long enough to have that many turns - that would be 100 a week, and I started as a freemium. You were the one who said it was "sooo easy" to log in and take your turn - but you then gave an instance of why that isn't always the case.
I suppose it's expected at this time of year, but your text included a bad spell of "whether"
In all seriousness, I think you need therapy to help with your anger. You talk a lot about whining, having a back bone, being a cry baby, doing things "like a man" and so on - if I were to guess, I'd say something happened in your past where someone didn't stand up to someone who was bullying them. Whether that was you and you feel guilty for not stepping in (which may have led to your attempt), or it was a relative/friend who didn't step in to help you, I don't know, but it's clearly unresolved, and taking it out on fellow players seems to be your only current outlet. It's okay to be vulnerable at times - give yourself a break.
I'm the insane guy, that you never wanna meet... See the end of my blade? It's sharp. hehetdans wrote:lets rock this joint... or.. lets have them Blow this,,,,,, joint
But something happened in my past where someone was being bullied and no one stood up for them...Apatheist wrote: Thu Jan 15, 2026 3:31 pm I was genuinely trying to help you with your anger. Never mind, I'll leave you to it. I didn't want to start any conflict.
I mentioned the religious angle for information; you may infer from my username that I don't support religion at all.
What I do believe in, and shall defend, is that you're entitled to disagree with someone's idea, just as they are entitled to disagree with yours; I don't think that necessitates insults or trolling from either side. Sometimes it takes several suggestions before one hits on a good one - it's hard to know all the variations of how everyone plays or what everyone wants from the site, so personally I'm happy to see any suggestion, with people making logical points for and against it, before a decision is arrived at.
I'm the insane guy, that you never wanna meet... See the end of my blade? It's sharp. hehetdans wrote:lets rock this joint... or.. lets have them Blow this,,,,,, joint
Lets be clear, I didn't insult the poster because of their idea. I insulted them because they decided to foe me over disagreeing with them on 13 of their "suggestions" and they got mad when I told them that multiple of them were completely unintelligent.Apatheist wrote: Thu Jan 15, 2026 4:40 pm I didn't use religion as an example to support it, it was just additional information for people to consider. It's no skin off my nose either way.
I think people need to consider that, from what I've read, the site has declined considerably, and any suggestion for improvement should be considered on its merits.
You believe it's trash - fine. On consideration, I agree with you. I would not be in favour of implementing it. I'm just not going to insult anyone for coming up with an idea - I don't think that's productive, and certainly not a way to encourage people to make suggestions that would improve the site.
I'm the insane guy, that you never wanna meet... See the end of my blade? It's sharp. hehetdans wrote:lets rock this joint... or.. lets have them Blow this,,,,,, joint