Arches, offensive [closed]

by **Tezu** on Sun Feb 21, 2010 10:10 pm

Accused:

Arches

The accused are suspected of:

Being offensive

Comments:

I logged on today to find a very disturbing message on my wall.
Arches had posted the following message: "i think you need to have sex, preferably anal " wich I find very offensive. Please do something about this behaviour.

In case he deletes it, I have a screenshot, but don't know how to paste it in this thread

EDIT: SInce everyone seems to agree this behaviour doesn't need to be reported, I withdraw the accusation, and will delete the meesage from my wall...

by **Army of GOD** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 12:11 am

I'm sorry, but that's not really ban-worthy. The best thing you can do is FAMO.

by **Tezu** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 1:17 am

I'm not saying he should be banned, but at least a warning so that he doesn't keep doing that

by **Snowgun** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 12:08 pm

can you find other instances? maybe with other people?

Foeing is the best option, but i'm not sure about wall abuse and where it stands...

by **THORNHEART** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 12:37 pm

you dont like sex? thats ...disturbing

by **Tezu** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 3:28 pm

THORNHEART wrote:you dont like sex? thats ...disturbing

Whether I like or not sex, and the kind I prefer is not the issue here, the issue is the innapropiate and offensive coment this person posted on my wall

by **Frankly, my dear** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 3:44 pm

Tezu, you should have dealt with it on her own by asking him nicely to end the behavior and removed it yourself. The mods have a ton of stuff to do and this petty stuff can usually be dealt with by acting like adults. If it were to continue beyond that, I would then come here, but as a first offense... and your not asking him first to stop... I would say you need to do some more work before coming back to this step.

by **Deathwind** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 3:53 pm

Tezu wrote:
THORNHEART wrote:you dont like sex? thats ...disturbing

Whether I like or not sex, and the kind I prefer is not the issue here, the issue is the innapropiate and offensive coment this person posted on my wall

lol nice

by **Tiggy D Amour** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 5:42 pm

Always assume the person you're writing to is 8 years old unless you have evidence to the contrary. It's the difference between being rude and risking being accused of being a paedophile.

by **Snowgun** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 8:07 pm

Frankly, my dear wrote:Tezu, you should have dealt with it on her own by asking him nicely to end the behavior and removed it yourself. The mods have a ton of stuff to do and this petty stuff can usually be dealt with by acting like adults. If it were to continue beyond that, I would then come here, but as a first offense... and your not asking him first to stop... I would say you need to do some more work before coming back to this step.

From the guidelines:

Much like the Game Chat, private messages are not actively moderated. It's up to you to block individuals who annoy you via PM, but in severe cases such as excessive spamming, flaming, or trolling, you can open a complaint in the Cheating & Abuse Forum.

I assume they are also referring to wall posts as well, and i agree with FMD's comment above. Erase, then FAMO, OR Erase, PM at him then FAMO.

If he starts PMing you or stalking you anyway, then save the evidence, whip up a C&A thread, and it will be handled.

Sorry you had to deal with this asshole, but this IS the internet.

Good luck!

by **Bruceswar** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 9:49 pm

This is surely ban worthy... I am sorry but that way oversteps the line. You guys seriously cannot be serious? I mean WTF? This is not a porn website and we should not have to deal with comments like that. There are many kids who are under 15 here. There are thousands under 18... Point being is that this site is geared towards a casual gamer, which includes kids, adults, and just about anybody you can imagine. This filth should not be allowed here.

by **King_Herpes** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 9:57 pm

Oh, put your light saber away already Bruce. This is the friggin' internet people and it's no different then the harsh realities we face outside of it. Learn to be a little more passive and you'll have one less Gall stone by the time you're 70. Besides this girl doesn't even do bum coitus so no need to stick your neck out so far bubb.

by **king sam** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 10:01 pm

Please send me the screenshot

by **king achilles** on Mon Feb 22, 2010 10:07 pm

Arches has already been advised to be more mindful of what he posts on other people's wall. While I agree that this may not be a site for children, this is also not site exclusively for adults either. Not all humor can be shared nor is there an obligation for everyone to. This is noted.