Juan finds nudes of ex on web, what should he do?

[Juan_Bottom]

Her new BF is an ass I guess. A mutual friend ran into a pic or maybe more on a popular imageboard sight, and brought it to my attention. And yeah, it's her. The friend isn't going to say anything. I have been racking my brain about this all night. What should I do CC?!?! Do I

A)keep my mouth shut
B)blackmail and profit
c)use the info to win her back somehow
d)tell her best friend who'll handle it

[john9blue]

How far did you get with her, and how bad do you want her back?

[GabonX]

Her new BF is an ass I guess. A mutual friend ran into a pic or maybe more on a popular imageboard sight, and brought it to my attention. And yeah, it's her. The friend isn't going to say anything. I have been racking my brain about this all night. What should I do CC?!?! Do I

A)keep my mouth shut
B)blackmail and profit
c)use the info to win her back somehow
d)tell her best friend who'll handle it

E) PM GabonX the picks

Go with E

[Beckytheblondie]

E. Send us the link!

if not E then definitely D

[trinicardinal]

D.....who knows it might even lead to C. Either way its the best thing to do.... if you don't go with E of course....lol

Seriously though,... go with D

[Juan_Bottom]

How far did you get with her, and how bad do you want her back?

very long relationship, and obviously lots

But, is that really what's smart to do? I dunno. Prolly 10 times smarter to let her make her own mistakes without interfering and she'll come back later.
Interesting, I actually just-just saw the pics from earlier in the day when they were at a bar... she posted them on her Facebook. She must not have any idea.


There be no link, only a 404

I just don't know what to do about this. It's a tough call but seems like D is picking up momentum. Seems like the safest choice.

[hwhrhett]

step 1: go to hotmail and start a new email account using new boyfriends name
step 2: use this email account to email copies of the pictures to her parents

[john9blue]

Well, you sound like a decent guy. If her current boyfriend is an asshole, then you have no chance. Girls love assholes.

[thegreekdog]

Well, you sound like a decent guy. If her current boyfriend is an asshole, then you have no chance. Girls love assholes.

Not true. High school girls love assholes. Once they realize that assholes generally work at car washes their entire lives, while nice guys generally make a good salary, girls love the nice guys. Trust me on this one.

I would go with A or D. You should also consider setting up a fake email account as a complete stranger and sending your ex-GF the pics.

Also, if your ex-GF is under the age of 18, you can call the police and get her and the current BF arrested for child pornography.

[john9blue]

F. Fap

Really though, I hope you're right, greek.

[GabonX]

I don't think that any of us can really give qualified advice until we see what we're talking about here

[thegreekdog]

F. Fap

Really though, I hope you're right, greek.

I am. I'm a nice guy. I did okay in high school, but the hottest girls went after the shitty guys. That changed in college. It changed even more after college. I'm 29 years old and married. My wife is hot.

[Titanic]

I don't think that any of us can really give qualified advice until we see what we're talking about here

Yer, this is too subjective without us seeing some hard evidence.

I say do E, then D, and hopefully that will lead to C.

[Anarkistsdream]

I don't think that any of us can really give qualified advice until we see what we're talking about here

Relentless with wanting to look at an underage girl?

Sick.

[Juan_Bottom]

I don't think that any of us can really give qualified advice until we see what we're talking about here

You're on the internet. 10,000 pics related. But trust me, you'd want to see it.

F. Fap

Worst kind of shame ever.

fake email account as a complete stranger and sending your ex-GF the pics.

Can't. Has no email except a college one. No one checks those.

Also, if your ex-GF is under the age of 18, you can call the police and get her and the current BF arrested for child pornography.

She's old enough.

I am. I'm a nice guy. I did okay in high school, but the hottest girls went after the shitty guys. That changed in college. It changed even more after college. I'm 29 years old and married. My wife is hot.

She went after the nice guy in school, and is with the shitty guy in college.

I say do E, then D, and hopefully that will lead to C.

lol?

[Rustovitch]

Her new BF is an ass I guess. A mutual friend ran into a pic or maybe more on a popular imageboard sight, and brought it to my attention. And yeah, it's her. The friend isn't going to say anything. I have been racking my brain about this all night. What should I do CC?!?! Do I

A)keep my mouth shut
B)blackmail and profit
c)use the info to win her back somehow
d)tell her best friend who'll handle it

D.

[Titanic]

C'mon Juan, you know you want to....

PS: If she's good, you'll be higher ranked is people estimations...

[jonesthecurl]

Tell her the story.
My friend thought I might be concerned about this, I am. I'm not with you any more, and in a way it's none of my business - but you were a big part of my life for a long while, and I really thought you needed to know about this.
See what happens.

[jonesthecurl]

THEN send me the pics...

[GabonX]

Seriously..

You can't make a thread like this without sharing..

..Share

[john9blue]

Jones is a poet. Saying that (or something similar) would work great, *if* you don't think she'd think you were a pussy.

[jonesthecurl]

Jones is a poet. Saying that (or something similar) would work great, *if* you don't think she'd think you were a pussy.

If she thinks that makes him a pussy, the hell with her.
ANyhow, whether he wants her hot love again or not, it's what he should do.
If it was his next-door neighbour, he should tell her, far more so in this case.
(Juan I'm sorry if your next-door-neighbour isn't hot. I've just imagined m
nudiepics of both my neighbours, and now I have to go and have a drink to try and forget it).

[Juan_Bottom]

My neighbors are all dying elderly...

I would tell anyone I knew if I found this... it's just especially personal now. A hard and personal call... I don't want to make the wrong one and look like a stalker or anything. It was random.
I always wonder if she did make an account here to watch me...she coulda already voted.

And Gabon, they are perma-ban pics... I am sharing what I can...

[Neoteny]

The proper way to go about this is to send us a link, and then I guess notify her somehow. It's going to suck, and might not get you anywhere, but, assuming you actually care about her, she'd probably want to know that there are pictures of her floating around. If you think she'll never find out, then it might turn out ok, but it sounds like ya'll live in a small town...

It's better for her to know and be embarrassed now, so that it's not an embarrassing surprise later. That's my two cents. And give me a link. Was it on 4chan, cause there's probably a way to get a hold of them again?

[Neoteny]

My neighbors are all dying elderly...

I would tell anyone I knew if I found this... it's just especially personal now. A hard and personal call... I don't want to make the wrong one and look like a stalker or anything. It was random.
I always wonder if she did make an account here to watch me...she coulda already voted.

And Gabon, they are perma-ban pics... I am sharing what I can...

That's what pms are for...