And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
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Who the hell crashed our poll?
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Let me clarify that not all Christians even agree that homosexuality is wrong. Many do, but there are more than a few priests, ministers and pastors who have administered marriage rights or unification rights for homosexual couples.Timminz wrote:And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
Also, whether homosexuality is or is not accepted within the church is an entirely seperate issue from whether it should be allowed by those who are not members of that church.
Whether homosexuals should be allowed to marry or unify, in turn, is a distinct question from whether the state should recognize such unions in the way they do heterosexual marriages.
Right now, the religious issue is .. a religious issue debated within the churches.
Anyone can have a ceremony of union and even call themselves married if they wish, but only a few states recognize such unions as having any legal standing, either identical to marriage or in any other way.
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does it matter ? they are only further deluding themselvesNeoteny wrote:Who the hell crashed our poll?

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In the US, this is not entirely true. The marriage license gives the people permission to marry, the ceremony is needed to actually confer marriage in the US. A justice of the peace and captains at sea can marry, but the overwhelming majority of people do get married in churches (of one type or other). Clergy are given legal standing to perform the ceremonies, not just the state.Snorri1234 wrote:Priests are not the only people who marry others. You don't even have to go to church to get married. Gay people aren't asking for weddings in a church, they are asking for a marriage-license from the government.JJM wrote: It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
Also, whether a civil union or other type "civil only marriage" is acceptable is debated within the gay community. The church issue is partially a religious issue, but there are already plenty of churches that do recognize such unions. The state does not honor them in most states, though.
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Uh yeah that's what I meant actually. Someone ofcourse needs to marry people, I meant that it doesn't have to be a priest and that a priest isn't obligated to marry people he doesn't want to marry.PLAYER57832 wrote:In the US, this is not entirely true. The marriage license gives the people permission to marry, the ceremony is needed to actually confer marriage in the US. A justice of the peace and captains at sea can marry, but the overwhelming majority of people do get married in churches (of one type or other). Clergy are given legal standing to perform the ceremonies, not just the state.Snorri1234 wrote:Priests are not the only people who marry others. You don't even have to go to church to get married. Gay people aren't asking for weddings in a church, they are asking for a marriage-license from the government.JJM wrote: It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
That said, I believe plenty of dudes who marry people are more than willing to marry gay couples.
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If a preist doen't marry them then who will.Timminz wrote:And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
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JJM wrote:If a preist doen't marry them then who will.Timminz wrote:And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
planet earth to Jimbo
what do only priest marry coupls in ND?
A civil marriage ceremony by a marriage celebrant

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who the hell is voting "no problem morally but should be outlawed"? what's the problem there, do you think gay marriage going to cause earthquakes or something? will it make america too fashion-conscious?
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Well, take me for example. I will be getting married this summer. The ceremony will be performed by a Justice of the Peace. No church. No priest.JJM wrote:If a preist doen't marry them then who will.Timminz wrote:And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
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Uffda I am very sick of the way you talk about North Dakota. What is it about North Dakotaians that you hate soo much.If they are going to marry not have a civil union but an actual marriage it would be done by a preist or Rabbi or some religous minister.Captain_Scarlet wrote:JJM wrote:If a preist doen't marry them then who will.Timminz wrote:And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
planet earth to Jimbo
what do only priest marry coupls in ND?
A civil marriage ceremony by a marriage celebrant
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What does a Justice of the Peace do that has to do with marriage.Timminz wrote:Well, take me for example. I will be getting married this summer. The ceremony will be performed by a Justice of the Peace. No church. No priest.JJM wrote:If a preist doen't marry them then who will.Timminz wrote:And it does not harm the bigo...er.. christians to allow gay people to marry each other. No christian priests will be forced to wed gays, any more than they are currently forced to marry Muslims.JJM wrote:It does not harm Jews and Muslims for us to have pork but it is not right to make a preist go against his beliefs.
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you really are just a troll JimboJJM wrote: What does a Justice of the Peace do.

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I meant what do they do that has anything to do with marriage.Captain_Scarlet wrote:you really are just a troll JimboJJM wrote: What does a Justice of the Peace do.
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JJM wrote:I meant what do they do that has anything to do with marriage.Captain_Scarlet wrote:you really are just a troll JimboJJM wrote: What does a Justice of the Peace do.
and I meant you really are a troll

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I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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therefore only persons belonging to religions that have a "priest" are entitled to get married?JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.

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I believe that a person can chose to be married by whoever they want but I think it should be done by a preist or some other religous minister.Captain_Scarlet wrote:therefore only persons belonging to religions that have a "priest" are entitled to get married?JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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What you believe has no bearing on reality.JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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What will they do if the Justice does not beleive in Gay Marriage.Timminz wrote:What you believe has no bearing on reality.JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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I don't know about "they", but I'd probably call him a bigot. Ignorant, at the very least.JJM wrote:What will they do if the Justice does not beleive in Gay Marriage.Timminz wrote:What you believe has no bearing on reality.JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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why should a religious minister marry an athesit?JJM wrote:I believe that a person can chose to be married by whoever they want but I think it should be done by a preist or some other religous minister.Captain_Scarlet wrote:therefore only persons belonging to religions that have a "priest" are entitled to get married?JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.

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He can married by whoever he chooses.Captain_Scarlet wrote:why should a religious minister marry an athesit?JJM wrote:I believe that a person can chose to be married by whoever they want but I think it should be done by a preist or some other religous minister.Captain_Scarlet wrote:therefore only persons belonging to religions that have a "priest" are entitled to get married?JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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You can't make the Justice go against his beliefs ethier.Timminz wrote:I don't know about "they", but I'd probably call him a bigot. Ignorant, at the very least.JJM wrote:What will they do if the Justice does not beleive in Gay Marriage.Timminz wrote:What you believe has no bearing on reality.JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
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If their beliefs are bigoted, they have no right imposing them on other people. If they didn't want to marry certain people they shouldn't have gone into the business of marrying people. I would liken it to a police officer deciding to never arrest Asian people, because he believes that they don't break the law.JJM wrote:Timminz wrote:I don't know about "they", but I'd probably call him a bigot. Ignorant, at the very least.JJM wrote:Timminz wrote:What you believe has no bearing on reality.JJM wrote:I do not believe in marriage being done by someone other than a religous minister.
What will they do if the Justice does not beleive in Gay Marriage.
You can't make the Justice go against his beliefs ethier.