Oh, I am FAR from afraid of talking about hell. I have defended its existance on several past occasions, in fact, and it is a firm belief of mine that hell is a terrible reality. I am perfectly comfortable discussing it.
Does that mean I think the foundation of faith should be fear of hell? Pardon my French, but hell no!
Faith should be based on love of God and His love for us. As such, I think the self-survey which you presented to Backglass may have been a little off. God does not want to see us in hell, so I think it may be good to question based off of what God DOES want.
And I think this:
"What if they are right? What if there is a God who loves me unconditionally and wants to see me reach out to Him with open arms? What if there is a God who is watching me with loving eyes, waiting for me to run into His arms like a child to his father?"
is far more representative of God's love for us than this:
"What if they are right?", "What if Hell is real?"
To be frank, I would much rather be right about God's love for us than hell's existance. Of course, I am quite certain I am right about both.
Just my opinion of course
