i understand you Steinmeister. im not disputing that at all.
consider though... most of the offers for alliances i have seen are (in the game chat) "hey teal, pink is getting too big and strong. how about we dont break each others bonuses until round 10?" ive seen people as high as major doing this.
Can you imagine filling up the game chat with lines and lines of negotiations? Of course not. It is the first sign of a complete amateur.
lines and lines??? dude the answer to the question i just mentioned would either be: "Yes sure lets attack pink!" or "Go away. You are on your own." negotiation done. completed. kaput. finished. verrry few lines. three at the very most.
if (in my example) he was to attack you... meh the game was lost anyway, pink would roll over you and your opponent quicker. if pink was to attack you after that offer... it doesnt matter, he would have attacked you anyway.
I have come across personality types like Jacko's before. He did not communicate, would not discuss, had nothing to say UNTIL he LOST.
if you PMed those messages to me i would have ignored them also. and after the game you would have gone on my ignore list as well. I would be absolutely manuring myself *figuratively speaking of course* that i may be pinged for 'attempted' SAs. If i was to reply to those messages AT ALL, i would have said something along the lines of, "Talk to me in game... unless you are paranoid."
Have the guts to talk about alliances in game chat. It wont hurt you. youll lose what exactly if you talk in GC? Your house? Your family? Or just like 27 points?
27 points.... a couple games 1v1 on classic would be more than enough to get that back.