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I want to know what you would do.

so my wife cheated on me a week after our aniversary. I didn't find out until a couple of months later. she claimed rape and so the whole investigation started. needless to say instead of her telling me the truth, I found out only when the cops put everything together and offered her to come clean and they would drop the charges of filing a false police report. Supposedly she still loves me and only wants to be with me. She continues to check my myspace to see if I am talking to anyone. If Trust is nessecerry in a marriage, please tell me where she has any right to say that I should learn to trust.

shoot the bitch.

you couldn't have worded the option any clearer.

and BULLSHIT she still loves you and want to be with you. claiming rape when she was cheating on you???

man, ain't nobody got to tell you that the bitch is Trouble.

I have only one word of advice for you:

Run away...

Terribly fast.

.45 from the guy on the corner -$250
a box of bullets from Wal-Mart - $20
Knowing the bitch won't do it again- PRICELESS

SHOOT THE BITCH

Er, just in case Senfive is actually listening to people's suggestions, I thought I'd better just suggest you kick her out (not literally), and leave that gun in its case where it belongs...

good point I didn't think of that i forgot that this is the internet and it is full of crazy people (not that you are crazy senfive) but yeah if you want the real suggestion kick her out

Not marry the bitch in the first place?

first sorry to hear about your situation it does suck when you've been cheated on.i've been there first you both need to talk everything out and get to the bottom of everything i'm not saying what she did was right but you have to find out why she is unhappy in the marriage or just unhappy in life as for the rape thing only a sad pathatic pearson would claim such a horrible act that has happened to them. the best thing to to is talk and if that can't happen just get on with your life there's always someone out ther that is better. but do ask your self this do you still love her?

i say kick her out on her arse.
cheating is cheating.
unless she is mentally unstable then there is no excuse in my mind.
i mean whats the point in the conversation about why she did it and why she was unhappy
locking, stable,horse,bolted springs to mind

now im not having a go at women,(so dont lynch me)but in this day and age it is so easy to scream rape when women sleep around or just because they had a one night stand and the guy pissed her off.
The annoying thing about this is that when things like this are brought up in the papers, the womens identity is kept secret while the guys whole private life is on show for all to see.
i know someone who was accused of rape and it was completely bollocks even this so called victims solicitor and family didnt believe her.

My friends name was dragged through the mud,his life was turned upside down, he spent 3 months in a borstal and was not allowed to come back to his home town to see his family till the court case was over.

All this happened over 10 years ago and my friend still gets abuse now from people in the street but this silly little bitch hasnt even had her name mentioned and hasnt suffered any reprecussions whatsoever

Now where is the justice in that

i better shut up now because i cant believe how angry this has made me

anyway mate like i said before this rant kick her out and get over her as best you can

Do you still love her?

Will it be better being together and not being certain in your own mind if she's being faithful, or being apart knowing for a fact she'll be with other guys?

Do you want to be without her?

Answer those truthfully to yourself and you'll know what to do.

For me, trust is earned, not given. She has no right to expect trust from you, it's something she has to gain back from you and that will take a long time.

well talking is better then not knowing at least there will be closure on his side and maybe if they talk she'll understand what she has done to him also there are always too sides to a story. i.m not agreeing with her but cheating comes from somewhere theres always some reason behide people cheating low self esteem,insercuitys etc... as for the rape no body has a right to claim it unless it's happened to them and even at that it's not something that you talk about. like i said before he has to decide what he wants and if he still loves her.do what you think is right in your heart cuz no matter how many times people tell you to leave her in the end it's you that has to decide what you really want

i voted make her go live with her parents...but if its the first time shes done..well everyone desevres a second chance

shoot first.

talk later.

supercram wrote:shoot first.

talk later.

well if he shoots her there won't be any talking right

passions wrote:

supercram wrote:shoot first.

talk later.

well if he shoots her there won't be any talking right

you bring up a very good point.

perhaps passions' level-headed approach is better after all.

Again i dont think there is any reason whatsoever for cheating,even if its a spur of the moment thing, some sort of conversation has to be initiated for it to get to the stage of actually cheating with some-one. (unless your paying for it !!!) but even then you have to ask how much lol.

Surely even the lowest of the low must have time to think.

A) is this right?

B)what happens if and when my partner finds out

C)how would i react if my partner cheated on me

i think the human conscience is what truly separates us from the animals.

dezzy26 wrote:Again i dont think there is any reason whatsoever for cheating,even if its a spur of the moment thing, some sort of conversation has to be initiated for it to get to the stage of actually cheating with some-one. (unless your paying for it !!!) but even then you have to ask how much lol.

Surely even the lowest of the low must have time to think.

A) is this right?

B)what happens if and when my partner finds out

C)how would i react if my partner cheated on me

i think the human conscience is what truly separates us from the animals.

your right there is no excuse to cheat on someone but like i said before people cheat for many reasons just like there there are different types of cheating.i don't think we're much different from animals cuz if we were there would be no cheaters in this world.as for the questions people that cheat don't really think before they do it those questions come after the fact most of the time

Senfive wrote:I want to know what you would do.

so my wife cheated on me a week after our aniversary. I didn't find out until a couple of months later. she claimed rape and so the whole investigation started. needless to say instead of her telling me the truth, I found out only when the cops put everything together and offered her to come clean and they would drop the charges of filing a false police report. Supposedly she still loves me and only wants to be with me. She continues to check my myspace to see if I am talking to anyone. If Trust is nessecerry in a marriage, please tell me where she has any right to say that I should learn to trust.

Forgive me for being the ever cynical internet user, but pray tell, why are you asking advice from a bunch of basement dwelling risk players on a personal issue like this? Seems to me like someone is seeking attention....

headbutt the cunt

Take responsibility for whom you are marrying. Nobody put th gun to your head (unless you are from Texas in wich case you shouldn't have comed unarmed to the wedding ).

vtmarik wrote:I have only one word of advice for you:

Run away...

Terribly fast.

I'm with VTMarik on this issue.. mainly because you don't claim rape to cover up an affair.. Its like a child who says "I didn't do it... " and points to someone else blaming it on them..Thats honestly what it reminds me of!! Its immature and screwed up! She never would have admitted to the affair had the cops not stepped in..would she?

To boot It shows you how much trust you have in your marriage if shes checking your myspace only to see who your talking to. I'd like to think that shes at least leaving comments..? Or is she litterally in it like shes got your password kind of thing? Hopefully your not leaving anything out here.

Write us back explain a little more you can start with some of the questions I asked you here.. okay?

btw- I also went for kick her out and make her live with her folks

Cram... He cant shoot her, you want him going to jail over some person who cant seem to keep her legs together for everyone? Honestly, what are you thinking!!?

Whats that one saying "bro's before Ho's" Consider us your bro's! lol..
ttyl
Love Salva

I VOTED,,,,,SHOOT THE BITCH. SUNTZU

salvadevinemasse wrote:

vtmarik wrote:I have only one word of advice for you:

Run away...

Terribly fast.

I'm with VTMarik on this issue.. mainly because you don't claim rape to cover up an affair.. Its like a child who says "I didn't do it... " and points to someone else blaming it on them..Thats honestly what it reminds me of!! Its immature and screwed up! She never would have admitted to the affair had the cops not stepped in..would she?

To boot It shows you how much trust you have in your marriage if shes checking your myspace only to see who your talking to. I'd like to think that shes at least leaving comments..? Or is she litterally in it like shes got your password kind of thing? Hopefully your not leaving anything out here.

Write us back explain a little more you can start with some of the questions I asked you here.. okay?

btw- I also went for kick her out and make her live with her folks

Cram... He cant shoot her, you want him going to jail over some person who cant seem to keep her legs together for everyone? Honestly, what are you thinking!!?

Whats that one saying "bro's before Ho's" Consider us your bro's! lol..
ttyl
Love Salva

Honestly she told me if the cops didn't catch I wouldn't have known. I doubted her the whole time, but if I wanted any chance I had to be a man and stand up for her telling the turth. I felt like I was slapped in the face.

I should have known better cause she told me the night we hooked up that she was cheating on a boyfriend back home with me. Maybe its because she was my first and I wasn't thinking straight. anyway I fucked up from the beggining.

and about my password thingy. Long story. she wanted my password to myspace so she typed in my login and pressed forgot password. went to my hotmail and said forgot password also. Hotmail gives you an option to either e-mail your password to another account or to answer some personal questions to reset it. Her being married to me knew the answers and thus got access to everything. she changed my passwords back the way they were and I wouldn't have known had she not told me. I went ballistic hung up on her and changed everything. I tried to start trusting her, then she does that shit. I have never ever cheated on anyone in my life. I am in the USAF and have a ton of integrity, and for her to even think, think that I would do something when she is the one that isn't trustworthy is beyond me.

Oh and yeah she has self esteem issues and what not. She also loves, and I mean loves to claim that she is about to commit suicide to try and get me to stay with her. thats when I hang up the phone and pull it out of the wall.

Suntzu wrote:I VOTED,,,,,SHOOT THE BITCH. SUNTZU

BAH,,,,,WHATS UP WITH ALWAYS USING,,,,,,,ALL CAPS,,,,,AND LOTS OF COMMAS???,,,,,?