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This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 9:45 pm
by jnd94
Hate to be a negative asshole, but this is pissing me off to an extreme. Every single player here seems to be modding right now. Skoffin just cancelled her game because people keep popping up and stealing players. I for one have been planning for awhile, and haven't modded in a fair while....(4 months? 3? ) Whatever, that doesnt matter. With so many games, i feel obligated to join them. I don't know why, Im a nice person. :P I can't concentrate on all these games now. So, after I finish all my games, I will mod my final game, then Im stopping mafia. It's not as fun anymore. It's more of a "crap, I haven't posted in so and so's game in 2 days" instead of "I hope someone read my arguement against so and so", which is what it used to be for me, anyway. Yeah.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 9:55 pm
by /
You didn't join mine. :evil:
Sorry though, I shouldn't have made one when i just barely have been here, though there were hardly any going at the time.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 10:02 pm
by Talapus
Ya, kinda why I think Grimms Fairy Tales may be my last one for awhile. Oh well, sign ups start soon.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 10:04 pm
by LSU Tiger Josh
I'll say this much I haven't done an invite only one b/c I wanted players to join on their own although the one I'm having signups for was really meant to introduce noobs to nonvanilla. I do agree though we have too many new people coming in and just creating games that really have no business doing it yet. At least none of them have done an NES though

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 12:38 am
by Iliad
yeah great that new people playing mafia but don't start a mafia straight away. Especially if there are already about 4 games going, 3 of which are large

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 2:38 am
by Sierra_Leon
jnd94 wrote:Hate to be a negative asshole, but this is pissing me off to an extreme. Every single player here seems to be modding right now. Skoffin just cancelled her game because people keep popping up and stealing players. I for one have been planning for awhile, and haven't modded in a fair while....(4 months? 3? ) Whatever, that doesnt matter. With so many games, i feel obligated to join them. I don't know why, Im a nice person. :P I can't concentrate on all these games now. So, after I finish all my games, I will mod my final game, then Im stopping mafia. It's not as fun anymore. It's more of a "crap, I haven't posted in so and so's game in 2 days" instead of "I hope someone read my arguement against so and so", which is what it used to be for me, anyway. Yeah.

So instead of quiting mafia, just keep it to one or two games at a time. As long as people keep joining new mafia games, there is apparently still a demand for it. Instead of forbidding people to jump the announcement-queue with new games, the community (this means you) could just decide not to join a game like that. If all the experienced players do this, there will be enough people to fill the properly announced games and everyone will be able to focus on the few games they're in.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 6:18 am
by pmchugh
Sierra_Leon wrote:
jnd94 wrote:Hate to be a negative asshole, but this is pissing me off to an extreme. Every single player here seems to be modding right now. Skoffin just cancelled her game because people keep popping up and stealing players. I for one have been planning for awhile, and haven't modded in a fair while....(4 months? 3? ) Whatever, that doesnt matter. With so many games, i feel obligated to join them. I don't know why, Im a nice person. :P I can't concentrate on all these games now. So, after I finish all my games, I will mod my final game, then Im stopping mafia. It's not as fun anymore. It's more of a "crap, I haven't posted in so and so's game in 2 days" instead of "I hope someone read my arguement against so and so", which is what it used to be for me, anyway. Yeah.

So instead of quiting mafia, just keep it to one or two games at a time. As long as people keep joining new mafia games, there is apparently still a demand for it. Instead of forbidding people to jump the announcement-queue with new games, the community (this means you) could just decide not to join a game like that. If all the experienced players do this, there will be enough people to fill the properly announced games and everyone will be able to focus on the few games they're in.


i agree, jnd dont just quit playing mafia altogether reduce you amont of games and youl go back to enjoying it, if people like you leave for that reason we will have even less players to fill peoples games. I would have liked to start modding games but i dont think i will untill the number of games goes way down.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:45 am
by Neoteny
I think you guys need hugs. If you don't want to join a game, don't join a game. My self-esteem is not such that I need people to validate a game. Hell, I'll play it by myself if I have to.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 8:18 am
by Anarkistsdream
Neoteny wrote:I think you guys need hugs. If you don't want to join a game, don't join a game. My self-esteem is not such that I need people to validate a game. Hell, I'll play it by myself if I have to.

You're used to playing with yourself, aren't you? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 11:20 am
by Neoteny
Anarkistsdream wrote:
Neoteny wrote:I think you guys need hugs. If you don't want to join a game, don't join a game. My self-esteem is not such that I need people to validate a game. Hell, I'll play it by myself if I have to.

You're used to playing with yourself, aren't you? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


You should see my workout regimen... where's that fap animation when you need it? :lol:

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 12:01 pm
by rebelman
for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 12:04 pm
by lord voldemort
rebelman wrote:for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(

i assume that was at me. dont worry you were on my list. your actually the next reserve i have to ask to play....i have a list of like 40 that are able to play an invite game...it goes in order of who i want....and yer if the game was 25 players you'd be in lol

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 12:20 pm
by kalishnikov
jnd94 wrote:Hate to be a negative asshole, but this is pissing me off to an extreme. Every single player here seems to be modding right now. Skoffin just cancelled her game because people keep popping up and stealing players. I for one have been planning for awhile, and haven't modded in a fair while....(4 months? 3? ) Whatever, that doesnt matter. With so many games, i feel obligated to join them. I don't know why, Im a nice person. :P I can't concentrate on all these games now. So, after I finish all my games, I will mod my final game, then Im stopping mafia. It's not as fun anymore. It's more of a "crap, I haven't posted in so and so's game in 2 days" instead of "I hope someone read my arguement against so and so", which is what it used to be for me, anyway. Yeah.


Who freaking cares, you're a crap mod anyway. ;)

No, I'm joking... And I totally understand your pain. Mafia definitly has lost a certain something as of late, not rightly sure what it is or where it's gone, but something is definitly different. The last influx of mafia'ers has brought a few good players but also has brought a number of people who join games just to submarine/not post anything of substance, which really doesn't help our already-dying mafia community. But it's not really the players killing it, it's the community in general killing it by not sticking to the que, flooding the boards with games, people joining too many games, submariners, half-assed mods, etc. It's not one person's fault, it's all of our faults that this is dying.

I'd hate to see these boards a few months from now, not gonna be many names left that I'll recognize me thinks.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:08 pm
by rebelman
lord voldemort wrote:
rebelman wrote:for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(

i assume that was at me. dont worry you were on my list. your actually the next reserve i have to ask to play....i have a list of like 40 that are able to play an invite game...it goes in order of who i want....and yer if the game was 25 players you'd be in lol


to be honest lovo it was aimed at all you guys and girls that organise private games around here and who refuse to even consider admitting new players like me. I have moaned about this in games in the past ie pvt games for high rankers but since i started playing mafia games it strikes me this place is far more elitish/snobbish than any other part of this site towards guys like me that are not part of the golden mafia circle and as of now theres no way for us new players to even break in no matter how many games we play or how we do in those games :(

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:08 pm
by cena-rules
rebelman wrote:
lord voldemort wrote:
rebelman wrote:for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(

i assume that was at me. dont worry you were on my list. your actually the next reserve i have to ask to play....i have a list of like 40 that are able to play an invite game...it goes in order of who i want....and yer if the game was 25 players you'd be in lol


to be honest lovo it was aimed at all you guys and girls that organise private games around here and who refuse to even consider admitting new players like me. I have moaned about this in games in the past ie pvt games for high rankers but since i started playing mafia games it strikes me this place is far more elitish/snobbish than any other part of this site towards guys like me that are not part of the golden mafia circle and as of now theres no way for us new players to even break in no matter how many games we play or how we do in those games :(


your on my invite list

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:12 pm
by rebelman
cena-rules wrote:
your on my invite list


:shock: :oops: :D

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:12 pm
by cena-rules
rebelman wrote:
cena-rules wrote:
your on my invite list


:shock: :oops: :D


but to be sure of a spot its best to pm me and reserve a place

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:14 pm
by got tonkaed
I guess im not that worried about it. I think in our humble little mafia community we have little peaks of activity and then people end up making too many games and some of the games suffer as a result. still eventually things seem to level out a little more and there are fewer games that get started which seem to go just fine.

So in an incredible change from my normal standard...let the market sort itself so to speak. eventually this new surge of games will slow, and then there will be a little more balance.

Also, its important to remember we are talking about a game or a community of games. Its supposed to be fun and probably should never be taken so seriously than you end up not having fun because of the way things are operating. Join the games you want, and start the games you want. If everyone joins every game available and 100 mods open games, the quality of each game will be low. But if only the same people get to mod games over and over and mod them whenever the mood or theme strikes them, then people are going to miss out on modding, which is pretty fun in and of itself.

Just try and have a good time with it all.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:22 pm
by Fircoal
rebelman wrote:
lord voldemort wrote:
rebelman wrote:for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(

i assume that was at me. dont worry you were on my list. your actually the next reserve i have to ask to play....i have a list of like 40 that are able to play an invite game...it goes in order of who i want....and yer if the game was 25 players you'd be in lol


to be honest lovo it was aimed at all you guys and girls that organise private games around here and who refuse to even consider admitting new players like me. I have moaned about this in games in the past ie pvt games for high rankers but since i started playing mafia games it strikes me this place is far more elitish/snobbish than any other part of this site towards guys like me that are not part of the golden mafia circle and as of now theres no way for us new players to even break in no matter how many games we play or how we do in those games :(


Rebel it's different for everyone. I mean my list was not based on skill at all. I had Life-Saver first, and as much as I hate to admit it, we all know she isn't good at mafia. My list was based mainly on who I liked, not who was good. The thing is I haven't gotten to know you, or any of the other n00bs that play here. But once I do, you'll be on my invite list (when I actually use it) That 's how I do it. And besides I run open setups mainly for a reason. I don't like to let anyone not play is they want to, or play if they don't want to. But of course, I will beg to some certain people to join. :lol:

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:28 pm
by kalishnikov
got tonkaed wrote:I guess im not that worried about it. I think in our humble little mafia community we have little peaks of activity and then people end up making too many games and some of the games suffer as a result. still eventually things seem to level out a little more and there are fewer games that get started which seem to go just fine.

So in an incredible change from my normal standard...let the market sort itself so to speak. eventually this new surge of games will slow, and then there will be a little more balance.

Also, its important to remember we are talking about a game or a community of games. Its supposed to be fun and probably should never be taken so seriously than you end up not having fun because of the way things are operating. Join the games you want, and start the games you want. If everyone joins every game available and 100 mods open games, the quality of each game will be low. But if only the same people get to mod games over and over and mod them whenever the mood or theme strikes them, then people are going to miss out on modding, which is pretty fun in and of itself.

Just try and have a good time with it all.


Damn you and your infernal optimism... Truly you are the pro-town hero.

I agree things will work themselves out but the question is how many players will leave before that happens? I like this community for the players and have no interest once the 'regs' are gone, to be honest. You know we'll be off-site sooner then later but that's not a cure as the player pool is guaranteed to stagnate.

I'm just being pessimistic I guess but I see many leaving in the upcoming months, perhaps with new to replace them but that's not the same.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 2:18 pm
by Ditocoaf
To rebelman: I really can't agree. I'm a complete noob here, and I've found more than enough games for me to play. I can't see myself doing more than 5 games at once, and personally I don't care about joining private games when there are so many public games available. I don't feel snobbed or left out here at all, in fact, I've found this part of the site far more welcoming than the rest of CC.


I think that yes, there are too many games around now, but soon the flux will slow down and then there'll be too few games, and it will flow back and forth.

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 4:16 pm
by ga7
Sierra_Leon wrote:So instead of quiting mafia, just keep it to one or two games at a time. As long as people keep joining new mafia games, there is apparently still a demand for it. Instead of forbidding people to jump the announcement-queue with new games, the community (this means you) could just decide not to join a game like that. If all the experienced players do this, there will be enough people to fill the properly announced games and everyone will be able to focus on the few games they're in.

Big QFT for the first part. If people were not joining/wanting to play every game out there I'm sure there would be less activity problems. As for the invite-only games, it's true that nowadays many experienced mods tend to want only a specific player base, which is too reduced to cope with it to start with (and doesn't make so much sense nowadays considering there's a good bunch of newer players too). But either way there's plenty of games open to everyone so I don't really see the point of complaining about it... In summary for the betterment of mafia here:
Players, learn to say no. Mods, do whatever you want but don't be way picky. My 2 cents :P

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:02 pm
by nagerous
rebelman wrote:for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(


what games are you talking about? theres been few invite onlys recently. My godfather was invite only kinda but I invited you.. I almost wish I made it non-invite now as its all the really old players that are posting the least..

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 10:58 pm
by Fircoal
nagerous wrote:
rebelman wrote:for newish players like me the only way i can get a game is if it's not invite only as I have yet to slay the 12 dragons, pluck the white eagle's feather, do the barrell roll down niagra falls and plant a flag on the moon - all of which seem to be requirements of the invite only games to keep them "regulars only" while us noobs live off the crumbs. :(


what games are you talking about? theres been few invite onlys recently. My godfather was invite only kinda but I invited you.. I almost wish I made it non-invite now as its all the really old players that are posting the least..


Man, I'm only not posting because I'm dead. :lol:

Re: This is getting annoying.......

PostPosted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 4:18 am
by Skoffin
Eh, I don't think this place is too snobbish and elitist. I haven't seen too many invite only ones lately, and ones that had went with a 'invite prefered player list first, and then have signups'.
For my formerly planned experimental game however it was largely going to be invite, but I had 'new players' on the list. Such as /, Dito, Yorkie, and others. My only requirements for my game was that everyone had played a minimum of one game and know what they're doing. (This game was more restricted then my previous game as, y'know, I was testing out roles and needed to be sure they were done properly)
Eh, guess I could just not be seeing the elitism as I'm generaly on the invite lists, even though I'm a terrible player.